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12 Attributes You Must Have to Succeed in the Business Universe

Ever thought to wonder if the job you work is right for you, most people have wondered.  There are very few who are content with their current situation.  Do you think you are the type of person who should start your own business?  The following list are the attributes I would consider important to someone who would like to make their mark on the universe.  You may not desire to own your own Imperial Fleet or Death Star but maybe this article will give you the courage and knowledge that you seek in your search for truth about starting your own business or not.  So you can be the rebel you were made to be.

 1. Hate the Status Quo – It doesn't make sense to you that something has been done the time-honored way with no explanation why. You are not someone who wants to just go through the motions or sit by idly. Nor do you like following the pack.

2. Easily Bored - You find yourself easily bored, and others start viewing you as a problem. But nothing is wrong with you except that you are bored with activities that aren't up to your abilities and aren't challenging. That's why you hated most of the classes you ever attended. Think Bill Gates who dropped out of college to become one of the richest men in the world.

3. Fired from Jobs – You're too creative for your own good when it comes to working for others, and you may have some history, as I do, of losing jobs. Being just a cog in wheel is very difficult for you because you want to create something others can be inspired by and contribute to.

4. Labeled a Rebel - You know that greatness resides outside the lines of conformity and don't think that policies, laws and regulations apply to you. You have been described as a rebel and rule breaker and would defy gravity if you could.

5. Resist Authority - You have a lifelong record of resisting authority from your parents, teachers and bosses. You don't go along with the agreed upon norms of the group or community you work and live in.

6. Ready to Improve Everything - You always see how you could do things better. In addition, you are opinionated and freely give your two-cents about your better way of doing things--even when you're not asked.

7. Bad at Making Small Talk - You have difficulty making the kind of small talk that so many people get comfort from. This social pattern of relationship and rapport building seems like a waste of time to you and makes you uncomfortable.

8. Bullied in Your Youth - You may have been heavily criticized, picked on and even bullied as a child or teenager. This has caused you to be driven to excel and to prove to the world that you are indeed a force to be reckoned with.

9. Obsessive - You may have been labeled obsessive/compulsive because when you get started on something you have difficulty letting go. Don't let anyone convince you that this is a disease or deficiency. All of the great entrepreneurs become completely immersed in their vision. Howard Schultz stuck with Starbucks even when his family tried to persuade him not to.

10. Scared to Go Solo - The entrepreneur in you is scared of going out on your own—and also terrified of not doing so. This fear is so common in our society because we've been conditioned to think that entrepreneurship is much riskier than getting a "good job." The reality is there is instability in both.

11. Unable to Unwind - You can't go to sleep at night because you can't turn your thoughts off. An idea may even manifest itself in your dreams. The next morning you find yourself still consumed with that idea, distracting you from the job you're supposed to be doing.

12. Don't Fit the Norm - You have always been a bit uncomfortable in your own skin. Until you get used to the idea that you are in fact different from most people, it could prove to be a problem--or exactly the motivation you need to acknowledge the entrepreneur screaming to get out.



I hope you appreciate this list and are looking forward to the next.  As always check out our books and audio at our site www.attitudedriveslife.com  and

Thank you for reading.


 

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What Kind Of Person Are You?

      As I have been working on my book over the past year I come across wonderful information that I need to share with others.  My studying of attitude and its applications toward success has always been a passion of mine.  This time I feel though as if I am learning more than I am teaching.  I am more than excited to see a work that I have labored so diligently on almost be finished.  It will be exciting to finally hold the completed product in my hands.  With that being said I challenge you to look inside yourselves and determine what type of person you are.  There is a poem I came across by a woman named Ella Wheeler Wilcox.  It is titled, "Which are you?" :

      There are just two kinds of people on earth today,
      Just two kinds of people, no more, I say.

      Not the sinner and saint, for it's well understood,
      That the good are half-bad and the bad half-good.

      Not the rich and the poor, for to rate a man's wealth,
      You must first know the state of his conscience and health.

      Not the humble and proud, for in life's little span,
      Who puts on vain airs, is not counted a man.

      Not the happy and sad, for the swift flying years
      Bring each man his laughter and each man his tears.

      No; the two kinds of people on earth I mean,
      Are the people who lift, and the people who lean.
      Where ever you go, you will find the earth's masses,
      Are always divided in just these two classes.

      And oddly enough, you find find too, I ween,
      There's only one lifter for every twenty who lean.

      In which class are you? Are you easing the load,
      Of overtaxed lifters, who toil down the road?
      Or are you a leaner, who lets others share
      Your portion of labor, and worry and care?

This wonderful work was written in 1896.  It is heartfelt and you can tell the emotion in which the author felt towards the subject of which she was writing.  So with my hand I too create a work.  I am excited to say that my book will be finished very soon for the public to enjoy.  I only hope that it inspires as many people as I wish it would.  Thank you all for taking the time to read my blog today.  It is my hope that you enjoy it and use today wisely, you will never have today back again.
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Are you a failure?

Why do you fail?  The many things we try to accomplish as human beings are mostly met with some type of failure.  Tests, jobs, relationships, you name it many of us have failed something along the way.  The reasons are great and numerous it would take me all day and most of tomorrow to try to come up with every little menial reason about why failure is such a part of our lives.  So instead I will ask you to invite failure into your life.  Yes, you heard me correctly. 

               One thing I find is that people I meet who are so 'afraid' of failure are also the same people who never want to change anything in their lives.  They are also the same people who complain the most about the job they hate or how successful someone else is and that it isn't fair.  They seem to always be putting someone down for trying something new or striking out on a feeling that they have. 

               I invite each and everyone of you to wake up everyday and start a new thing.  If I have learned anything from being my own boss it is that failure isn't a result, it is a process.  You will nevr fail if you don't try but you will never progress if you try and fail then stop.  In order to truly make it to wherever it is you want to find yourself, you must fail forward, that is, you try, you fail, you look at what you did wrong and you try again.  You must program yourself to think of failure as a stepping stone, not a destination.  You can't reach your goal without stepping stones that guide you along the way.

               
              Do something different, start something new, stick to it even if you fall down and get back up brush off the dust and try it again in a different way, learn from your mistakes and nothing can hold you back from living the life you deserve and desire. 

Have a great and productive day.


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Your Motivation

How come we are alive?  What will you be remembered for?  A better question is do you want to be remembered after your gone, or now, or both?  My answer would be both.  I want to be known know for being a great leader and inspire, right now.  I want to be here to motivate you.  Visit our website at www.attitudedriveslife.com to check out some of the latest.  You can browse our products, which more will be available by the end of the week,  and sign up for our free newsletter. 

I am available for speeches at your parties or graduations, conventions with limited availability.

So wake up each day to take control of your life, it is what you make of it.  You are guaranteed nothing,  so create before it's too late.
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Top 5 Reasons To Be Grateful Everyday

Attitude Drives Life exists to help others find everything they are striving to achieve.  Below are the Top 5 Reasons We Need To Be More Grateful.  Although we all have our problems and our heartaches that we must go through.  This list is intended to remind everyone what really matters in life, especially this time of year.


5. Thank God that you were born into a free society.  Whether that be any of the major developed countries we should be grateful.  This simple fact ensures basically the rest of the list.  So before you complain about a line at the store, or a traffic jam, remember that those could be the least of your worries had you been born somewhere else.

4. Can you read this?  If you can that means someone cared enough about you to teach you how to read, 98% of all illiteracy is in undeveloped countries( see #5 ) and 2/3 of those are women.  So hug a teacher and or your parents for taking the time to develop this often taken for advantage skill that we possess.

3. If you are reading this (#4) that means you have Internet access.  Which through deductive reasoning I can make the following assumption.  You live somewhere that has four walls a roof a floor and some form of heat.  That is a home, they come in different shapes and sizes but anyone who is reading this most definitely has one.  We complain too often about petty things when we actually have it very well off.  Be thankful.

2. Your life could be so much worse off than it is now.  Little things make up life, and we should be grateful for them. Sure we all have our problems and issues but really look around.  You probably aren't currently incarcerated, high on crack, bleeding to death in an alley way, or being chased by a contract killer.  Some of you might be. That's none of my business, but the vast majority complains too much about the smallest things like, nothing on tv, slow Internet, getting killed in our video games, traffic, ignorant people, lines at the store, or even how someone looks at you.  In my opinion we all need to slow down, let someone in the store go ahead of us, smile at that person on the street, take a break from the Internet and video games, shut off the tv and spend time with your kids or call your parents, forgive the ignorant people, and be grateful for getting stuck at that red light, maybe you will avoid an accident because you got stuck at that light.    Just smile because your alive.

The last one:
1. Being thankful for friends and family:  Even if you don't have family you most likely have friends. Sometimes you love them, sometimes you hate them, but they will always be your family and friends. I know everyone isn't the same and some things happen but there is usually always someone you can turn to during an emergency, and a shoulder to cry on when your sad. These make up the people whom we should never take for granted ' for who knows what a day may bring'.  

God Bless.

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Motivation Starts Your Journey, Habit Finishes It

This is a quote I want across from my bed every morning.  When I wake up it will greet me with a smile, to set my mindset on more important tasks.  Such as following through on the greatest works in my life.  This is paramount in anything you do in your life.  The statement is echoed by thousands of people in society mostly leaders and professionals who know the 'secrets'.  Even though they are not very secret.

These people who have the things in their lives which others folks may desire to have are usually brought about by many of years of failure, hard work and sacrifice. Of course ordinary people are too 'cool' to really apply any of these principles to their lives for an extended period of time.  Usually these people are the ones who complain most about the things the successful have even though they can attain the same things if they were willing to shut off the TV and get to work.

I encourage you to start something in your life, even if it may seem insignificant, it may lead to huge changes and great things.  Take that leap, and stick with it.  Always know that their are leaders and mentors everywhere that can encourage and motivate you along you path.


One of these such examples is our site www.attitudedriveslife.com  I hope you take them time to subscribe to the blog and like our website. 

Thanking you in advance,

                                       Tim
http://www.attitudedriveslife.com/the-happiest-guy-in-the-world/




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Live through your experiences.











"Live through your experiences, embrace your mistakes for they teach you the most valuable lessons in life." ~ Melanie M. Koulouris


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Something Beautiful.













"Something beautiful can blossom even on the darkest of days." 


~ Melanie M. Koulouris


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You are exactly where you are supposed to be.





Hey you...
I'm talking to YOU! Yes YOU...
You are exactly where you should be, doing exactly what you should be doing.
Own it and believe it. 
You may not agree with it, but that is the reality. 



When you face it and embrace it, life becomes so much easier.
There is no sense wishing you were someone else, somewhere else, doing something else because you were placed here for a reason and you have purpose.
This very moment you are apart of something so much bigger than you...
Hey you...
I'm talking to YOU! Yes YOU...
You are exactly where you should be, doing exactly what you should be doing.
Own it and believe it.
Face it and embrace it.

=) Melanie Moushigian Koulouris


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When it comes to love...










"When it comes to love, so many times it is so hard to let go of what we can't control because we are busy holding on to false expectations.  Emotionally attaching yourself to your own sentiments rather than facing the fact of reality can actually make you a victim of your own personal desires.  Everyone is uniquely different, with personalities, standards and limitations. Where one can give abundantly, someone else may not be able to give at all. To put expectations on others of that which I expect of myself, is not fair to them or me. More times than not, this leads to disappointment and dissension.  Hold on to hope, but let go of expectations. What will be will be. You can’t make someone love you, all you can do is be someone who can be loved, the rest is up to the person to realize your worth." 



~ Melanie Moushigian Koulouris

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